The Fight for Feminism

I have lots of stuff floating in my head about feminism, but nothing sounds good on the nifty, new-fangled paper AKA laptop screens, so I’m taking this article from a school assignment.

We had to pretend to be winning Time Magazine’s Person of the Year (POY) award, after being inspired by a humanitarian ( to do pretty much the same thing, but you know, that’s what they told us to do).  Somehow I managed to convince my ELA teacher Tavi Gevinson was a really great choice, but she is right?  Feminism and all that…

The Fight for Feminism: [Clever Title I have Yet to Figure Out]

According to The Independent, in the United Kingdom, women earn 15% less money than men, doing the exact same jobs.  1.2 million children are sold as slaves each year.  80% of these children are girls.   In 10 countries around the world, women are forced to obey their husband, and anything they say.  The shocking truth is, in society, women are less respected, less important, and forced to be less independent than men.  But it’s not totally a lost cause.  Feminists like Nyah Marie have taken the world by storm in their dedication to get equal rights for both genders.  It is for this reason that Nyah Marie has been selected as Person of the Year.

Nyah, like many other feminists has managed to travel around the world giving empowering and inspiring talks.  She has created an online magazine for young girls all over the world to learn about feminism, to help them “discover their true identity,” and to empower them, so that they can become strong leaders later in life.  She had written articles upon articles about important issues for girls at an early age.  According to Nyah, “If teens are exposed to issues before their peers they can form valid, informed ideas and opinions that are not tainted by the views of others.”

Such wisdom is unexpected for someone who hasn’t been on earth longer than twenty years.  Nyah Marie, currently known a job as an editor, a spokesperson, and a role model for girls everywhere is only seventeen.

It’s not too surprising that she already knows so much for her age.  Nyah grew up in a city full of many different opinions, and cultures.  This colorful, and creative city is known as none other than New York City.  She lived in an apartment with her eminent artistic mother,  and her dad, an art museum curator.  While attending an exclusive private school in New York City, her mother sent her an email with a link to photographs of handmade paper magazines all about women’s rights.  After carefully reading everything, and then rereading to make sure she got the point, Nyah sheepishly admits she was a bit confused about what feminism really was, and what it was trying to accomplish.  So she spoke to the other girls in her class, asked them what they thought about feminism, and other major issues like depression.  To Nyah’s surprise, they either didn’t care, or they didn’t want to.  “They were all happy cheerleaders, they didn’t want to be different, they didn’t want to be creative, and they didn’t want to weighed down with sad thoughts, and rebellious causes.  I was going crazy not being able to say something, not being able to make any difference in the world.  So I asked my mom to help me put together a blog where essentially I went on and on about world hunger, oppressive leaders, but most importantly, feminism,” Nyah states.  Eventually that blog became a little more well known than  she had originally planned.  She was featured on talk shows, interviewed, was even asked to be the face of a company, which she immediately turned down, for unknown reasons.

One might think that all this power has gone to her head.  But Nyah remains humble, both as a person, and as an emerging world leader.  She prefers we not refer to her as an idol, or a legacy.  In fact, she thinks of herself as a normal person who got lucky doing what she loved, and talking about what she believed in.  While she knows that girls look up to her, she uses that to support her cause even further.  She tells girls that they can make a difference, that it is possible for them to influence society.  That slowly, their world is changing.

Though not as much as she would like it to.   Nyah truly doesn’t understand why anyone would be against feminism.  After reading many comments, and articles, she was able to draw the conclusion, that people think it’s an angry cause.  That feminism is only for women.  That feminism is trying to raise the power women have, and lower men’s.  But truly, feminism is only asking for equal rights, equal respect, and equal power for both genders.

That is one of the reasons Nyah eventually grew her small blog into the magazine it now is.  She believed being a teenager, and being a feminist were closely related.  To Nyah, feminism had no rules.  Sure there are some basic principles, but everyone is really trying to figure it out.  And that’s exactly how a teenager lives their life, trying to figure everything out.  So the association was almost natural, as was blogging to her 1,000s of followers that she wanted to start a magazine, and asking them to submit their work to be on the staff.  She got an enormous amount of replies, to which she was able to narrow down to a select few.  All of those girls had a different opinion on what feminism was, and to Nyah, getting in a fiery hot debate was quite fun.

To Nyah, feminism means fighting.  Fighting for equal rights, for ideas to stop oppressing girls.  Specifically in pop culture, these films, songs, bands, and idols, quite often display “strong” women as characters with no flaws, that.  But in fact, these don’t exist, so it is quite impossible for anyone to be this way, yet we still somewhat expect women to be that simple and easy to understand.  But what is even worse is when pop culture portrays girls, especially teens, as one thing or the other.  You can’t be smart, and pretty, you can’t even care about how you look without caring about what boys think.

That is everything the magazine rebels against.  Quite a lot actually.  The whole theme of the website is to empower, inspire, and expose teens to good role models, that have flaws, that are controversial to society’s ideas of strong female characters.  A particular person of interest is the young adult, Tavi Gevinson, who Nyah was strongly inspired by.  Tavi, very similarly to Nyah, had a blog, but mostly about lighter topics like what clothes she was interested in, and what designers she liked.  Eventually she grew this blog into a large website about some of the same things, style, technology, music, basically a collection of all the different aesthetics Tavi was interested in.  “I heard about her blog shortly after I began mine, although she had given that up after she lost interest in fashion.  It was Tavi who first exposed me to feminism.  Tavi who first led to me take a stand.  It was all Tavi, and that’s who we should be giving credit to,” she says.

Who is this girl? Person of the Year, a feminist, a leader, a  natural born legacy, despite how much she despises when we call her that.  She is a seventeen year old girl who loves Lisa Frank glitter stickers, brooches, and aesthetically cataloging little corners of her room.  She is the girl in the corner of the room building an empire, and making shrines for her favorite people and places.  She is a normal teenager, who just so happens not to have a normal amount of wisdom for her age.  She is someone everyone wishes they were as cool as in high school.

 

 

 

Fall on Autumn | Morning Coffee Reading List

While I would love to tell you I am able to sip hot beverages, (not coffee obviously, being 12 and it smelling terrible,) every morning while perusing through the bookmarks of an iPad whole eating scrambled eggs, a banana, and toast, it just doesn’t happen.  More often than not I am rushing through the eating of some unhealthy chocolate cereal, and stuffing papers in folders, (and you know, I don’t have an iPad, but that’d be great *wink wink*).

But you know, the perfect way to get up in fall morning is to get your daily dose of inspiration (literally the most cliché thing ever) while enjoying your piping hot gourmet pancakes and pumpkin spice hot chocolate?!?!

(In no particular order… All photos from the blogger’s blog, obviously).

I Want You to Know

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While I just discovered I Want You to Know last week, I am one of those people who stops on good blogs and obsessively reads the archives, because well, that’s just me.  IWYTK features eccentric London styles with lots of personality and amazing photography.  I don’t usually layer this much for school, but it is lovely to see all her collars, coats, tights, and jackets.  If only…

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Wish Wish Wish

Any blogger who knows anybody has probably already heard of Carrie’s Wish Wish Wish.  While her blog theme is what caught my eye, (it’s pretty much the prettiest thing you’ll ever see) her style and writing made me stick around.  Another blogger with a DSLR, her lovely camera seems to capture all the pretty little things Carrie seems to wear.  A little bit more classy than IWYTK, Wish Wish Wish features many unique outfits, dainty products, artistic drawings, and drool-worthy vacation pictures.

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Tolly Dolly Posh Fashion

The only professional fashion blogger I follow even close to my age is an utter inspiration.  From inspiring me to take my blog seriously, to buying a tripod, to creating a scrapbook made of magazines, this 14 year old UK fashion blogger is one of my favorites.  She’s a super nice person, responding to some “Blogger to Blogger” questions I had within 2 days, and making sure to respond to all her quality comments on recent posts.  Plus I really love to see all the clothes she designs, which look absolutely amazing.  I can tell that this blogger has quite a lot in store for her.  Friends?  Hehe…

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Fashion Obscura

Far from my age, and far from my sense of style, this doesn’t seem like the type of blog I’d be reading.  But I admire her quirkiness, and her super-galactic futuristic, that’s also quite retro clothing.  Maddy has made me quite interested in fluffy clothes, and Skinny Dip London, my two major obsessions right now besides ASOS.  I am always thinking of her fluffy monster purse, bejeweled clear purse, and the hound’s-tooth jacket.  Like constantly.

Rose and Vintage

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Rose and Vintage

I’ve been obsessed with vintage and retro clothes since the very beginning of my blogging.  Only recently have I found vintage clothing styled well by a teenager in the modern world.  Once again I love all the quirky pieces, but in a different way.  They’re my kind of unique.  The ones you have to be interested in looking for, pins, collars, frilly socks, and cat-eye glasses.  Despite the fact that I will probably never buy something from Beyond Retro, it’s nice to know someone else is living out my dream.

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Kayla Hadlington

I will never step foot in a charity shop and find anything worth buying.  Ever.  But I love her very retro Los Angeles vibes, and how she manages to find all these things that look quite inexpensive for a very low cost.  I check to see if there’s a new post everyday on all these blogs, but especially Kayla’s because she posts very frequently, and has a very funny writing voice.  She also reminds me of that cool, moody, free spirited popular older sister, that didn’t care to try to be popular,  or care at all about what people thought of her.

What’s on your morning reading list?

Fall on Autumn | Wishlist

I never realized quite how many cheesy holiday themed puns there are until I became a blogger.

I am one of those people who has to aesthetically catalog and decorate their life.  Apparently, I am also one of those people who houses creepy things.  Surprisingly enough, that owl came from Disney World, and stays in my room year long in the Disney shrine.  Yes, I have one of those.  I realize I haven’t posted in many days, and there’s a reason for it too.  But trust me when I say there’s 3 other drafts of posts I have to finish writing a editing.

I find the easiest and most interesting thing to blog is my ASOS saved items list, once they have been filtered through for things I can afford, things I will wear, and things I can convince my parents to buy.  Voila!  See, now I am cosmopolitan.

Fall on Your Face, and Feet, and Everywhere Else

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Halloween only comes around once a year, and if you’re like me, you’re still growing.  So most likely anything I get for Halloween in terms of clothes would never be worn again, because my sisters are not as original as me.  So because I’m just a wonderful person,  also went through and found some really great everyday Fall items.  I think my favorites are the “Fashion Blogger” sweater, the clunky sandals, and the furry sweater.  The latter (can you still use that if there’s three items?) reminds me of Sully from Monsters Inc.

Ghostly Gifts, Creepy Cravings, and Witch-y Wishes

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Because I know how time consuming and distracting ASOS can be I took the liberty of combing through pages and pages of clothes and shoes for you.  While I will not be spending $80 on anything I wear once, I know some of you have jobs.  And you know, can…  So there are some less pricey items from the sales page, my favorite, and there are some full priced pieces as well.  A lot of this has been sitting in my saved items basket for a week or more, so I’ve actually seen things go from $60 to $3o.  Everything here I think is very Halloween-ie, as well as technically not a costume, so I don’t think you’ll get sent home from school.  But if you do have a batty old teacher (see what I did there?) or spend over $100, don’t blame me.

This little corner of my room is completely full of Halloween and Fall aesthetics.  So pretty much my life right now.
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I’m off to send this to my dad.  Hopefully I’ll be coming into some new clothes soon.

Playlist|Sink into the Sun

I’m not one of those people who walks around with earbuds in all day, or brings a Bluetooth speaker on the bus, but I do like music.  Some of the time.  Some of the time I think people have gone crazy.  For example, have you seen Nicki Minaj lately?  Stick with starships please.

My friend told my other friend about my blog.  So that happened.  She likes fashion too, so I guess it’s all good.  But maybe this is getting too diary-like.  I mean, boys, and other crazy stuff like that has become a daily thing.  Too bad, people, deal with my problems. Because I can’t consistently keep a journal.  The one I have now, with 17 pages completed is my record.

Oh, that title’s all me.  Yeah, I know I’m good.

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New Rings-The Transitive Nightfall of Diamonds

I am quite a fan of jewelry.

Obviously.

I mean, how else can I add something to an outfit?!?!  I think I have more jewelry than I have winter clothes.  Just saying.

So of course, if anyone wants to buy me a present, they buy me jewelry.  I think I currently need a new favorite piece of jewelry because I have been wearing the same TopShop necklace every time I post an OOTD, and the same cardigan.

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My mom bought me this set of two rings from Jewel Mint, turns out they’re supposed to have the same sized band, but the pearl ones a teensy bit too big, and the dagger-thing is a little bit too small.  I think I have fat fingers, but it’s more likely that models have unrealistically sized hands.  Just saying…

Let’s see.  In terms of life, nothing new.  I mean my dogs scared the UPS guy into leaving the package on the sidewalk, my best friend’s math group associated normal things, with quite disgusting things (if you know what I mean), yeah, that’s about it.  The majority of my days consists of me either not talking to anyone, talking about school work, or talking constantly with my friends.  Oh, and tutoring…  Yay for smart people!

Did you know the average person in my state consumes enough energy to send Marty back in time 138 times?

Are you telling me that you built a time machine… out of a DeLorean?

Yeah, I’m one of those nerdy people….  FLUX CAPACITOR!!!